Thursday, July 15, 2010


By Elayne Marchbanks

“Seven women will fight over each man and say, “Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let say you are our husband so we won’t have to endure the shame of being unmarried.” Isaiah 4:1

Many women have spent years trying to find the ‘perfect’ mate. The biggest mistake we women make is centralizing our minds, wills and emotions (our souls) on our men, instead of first endeavoring to be our best selves. An enlightened woman knows who she is – why she is at a certain place, where she is going and how she is going to get there.

God’s greatest creation was Adam and Eve in the garden. Woman was taken out of the rib of the man to be his soul mate, to help him be all that he could be and to walk
with him, side by side, forever. What an awesome purpose!
But something else happened in the garden that many don’t understand…especially women. When the serpent came into the garden and deceived Eve into being disobedient to God, not only did she fall for his guile, “God knows that your eyes will be opened when you eat it. You will become just like God, knowing everything, both good and evil.” But she misused her God-given influence and convinced Adam, who was supposed to be in charge, to disobey also!

The effect of this disobedience became devastating to mankind in general, and to the relationships of men and women specifically. Then God said to the woman, “You will bear children with intense pain and suffering. And your desire will be for your husband, he will be your master.” In other words, now woman’s Divine desire in her heart for man would be changed into a need for him…an exaggerated need to get a man, have a man and keep a man, to make her feel loved, desirable, worthy and fulfilled. This is something that no human man on earth has the real ability to do.
Now woman would constantly struggle to gain man’s love, and her longing for him would rule over her and influence all of her decisions about herself and her life.

You must know the real truth about you, that you are uniquely gifted, exquisite as you are and designed to achieve whatever you want out of life. There is great wealth buried within you, allow yourself to develop the art of being an enlightened woman and live and love life to the maximum!
Remember, God caused Adam to go into a deep sleep while He created Eve so that Eve would be a complete and finished work, nothing missing, nothing broken. God is going to complete His work in you before He wakes up the man He has for you.

The awesome truth is that God didn’t design us to need a man, but to need Him instead. When a woman fails to acknowledge her unique power, she misuses it like Eve did. We need to understand who we are and who we were meant to be as a woman.

Taken from the Book YOU ARE THE ONE YOU’RE LOOKING FOR: Freedom From the Relationship Drama to a Brand New You! The Book is available at, at, or call 502/209-9473.

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